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A Sacred Journey

practicing pilgrimage at home and abroad

Liturgical Year Archives

The seasons and holy days of the Liturgical Year within the Christian Church offer a framework for spiritual formation and an invitation to journey with intention year after year. Find posts on the liturgical year below, explore specific seasons on the resources page, and sign up here to receive updates on new posts directly in your inbox.

The Final Days of Advent: How Will You Give Birth to the Holy?

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If Facebook can be considered a news authority, then it’s a fact: all of my friends are either pregnant or have recently had babies.

Every time I log in, a new message appears in my feed announcing Baby X, coming to you May 2015. It all starts with an image of an ultrasound or a picture of a onesie, soon followed by photos of pink cake and ever-expanding baby bumps as the Internet awaits the arrival of the latest little one. Even Kate Middleton is pregnant again—though, since we’re yet not friends on Facebook, I’m unable to follow her quite as closely.

All this talk of babies has me with a serious case of baby fever, and, if I’m honest, these days I feel a tinge of jealousy each time I open up my computer to another grand announcement. However, with big house projects and young careers, it’s not time for us yet. Instead, I hold the tension of this desire close, knowing that this is a season for birthing other things and that one day soon the time for birthing babies will come.

Perhaps new birth is also at the forefront of my mind because we are in the final days of Advent and will soon celebrate the birth of Jesus—Emmanuel, God with us. It’s so easy to want to skip straight to the goodness in life as well as in the holiday season—to the new baby in our arms or to the songs of rejoicing as we proclaim, “Joy to the World!” In my own creative endeavors I, too, would rather get straight to the finished product, preferring to forgo that long stretch of waiting and avoid the labor pains.

Unfortunately, that doesn’t seem to be the way it goes. The finished product is never quite the same without the season of gestation, the surrender to the unknown, the wrestling and pushing until something beautiful is born. And still, despite my best efforts to force the creative process and remain in control, that beautiful thing is always a mystery until it reaches the light and takes its first holy breath.

Though we aren’t all pregnant and expecting Baby X in May 2015, as co-creators with the Divine and bearers of the image of God, we are each invited to give birth to the Holy. The season of Advent offers the perfect invitation to wonder about what the Sacred is conceiving within us and enter fully into the unknown as we both wait in the quiet mystery of pregnancy and, when the time is right, labor to bring forth new life.

It’s no coincidence that the church calendar begins with Advent rather than Christmas, nor is it accidental that the celebration of Christ’s birth falls for many of us during the darkest days of the year. Just as light emerges from the darkness, new life comes only after we engage the mystery that is slowly taking shape within.

Just like Mary, we bear the Divine, giving birth to the Holy within our daily lives in an effort to bring Hope, Light, and Life to the world. As the season of Advent draws to a close and we prepare to light candles and keep vigil on that silent night—holding tight to Mary as she ferociously labors in the most ordinary of places on the most unexpected of days—may we join her not only in celebration but also in the invitation to birth the Holy within us all, awake to God’s invitation and eager to serve as vessels of the Incarnation.

GO FURTHER…

What is the Sacred conceiving within you? How can you intentionally engage this season of waiting and gestation? What is born through your willingness to labor on behalf of the Sacred?

An Advent Invitation: Keeping Vigil & Waiting with Anticipation

winter in Ravenna Park

We awoke this past Saturday morning—the day before first day of Advent—to a quiet city blanketed in snow.

The forecast had predicted a few flurries on this day for over a week. However, here in Seattle, a pileup of snow is hard to come by. When they said a few flurries, I took them literally, expecting to wake up on Saturday morning to already-melting tiny patches of ice.

Despite my cynicism, on Saturday morning I opened the curtains slowly, filled with a tiny glimmer of hope leftover from a Midwestern childhood, in which the forecast of overnight flurries could mean a day (or two, or five) off from school. Nothing seemed better than a snow day then. But before we knew if the snow would come, we had to wait through the darkness.

The anticipation was so palpable I can still close my eyes return and those moments today. Once morning came, I would creep out of bed and head straight for the nearest window, whispering prayers of petition along the way. At the slightest turning of the blinds, my heart would fill with joy or sink with sadness as the window revealed either a wintry scene or the same gray day it displayed the day before.

This past Saturday morning I found myself looking out the window in anticipation once more and was surprised to discover the ground instead covered in white (with a few dry patches remaining—we’re talking about Seattle, here). With the season of Advent upon us, this reminder of such feelings of anticipation seemed timely—the perfect way to usher in a season that invites us to engage the tension between waiting and hope. 

Ravenna Park

On Sunday morning—the first day of Advent—Kyle, Sam, and I headed to the nearby forest, where patches of snow still remained, in order to collect fallen greenery to decorate our mantle. The pine branches and fern leaves we gathered along the trails would join our beeswax Advent candles as symbols of preparation and anticipation—two themes of the Advent season.

I’d imagined this moment ever since I began taking my daily walks in the forest, wooed by the symbolism of pine branches flourishing in the dead of winter and flickering Advent candles made from summer’s bounty, reminding us that Advent is a season of keeping vigil and holding on to hope.

gathering greenery for the hearth

Some might say Advent is to Christmas as Lent is to Easter, but I feel like Advent is more like Holy Week—the strange-yet-vital space in between. 

It’s easy to want to coast right on through these seasons of tension and straight on to the good news of Christmas and Easter. But the strain of Advent and Holy Week are gifts in their own way, invitations to intentionally enter into the darkness long enough to discover where new life is taking form. And yet while we courageously engage the tension, we wait with hearts filled with hope and souls filled with anticipation, making preparations for the coming season of celebration because we know of the good news that awaits. 

Advent candles

Until the season to celebrate that good news comes—amidst all the oh-so-tempting hustle and bustle of Christmas celebration that already surrounds me—I want to channel my longing into intentional preparation so that when the time arrives I can fully embrace the joys that Christmas brings.

My hope is that this Advent, the scene above on my mantle will—like a spiritual practice—call me to return to the season at hand, reminding me to embrace the strain and stay with the tension, so that I might not miss the unique gifts that keeping vigil and waiting with anticipation can bring.

GO FURTHER…

What practices help you to engage both the tension and anticipation of the Advent season? Share your response to the question or the post in the comments.

PS: Advent practices from last year and more seasonal reflections

Blessed by the Animals: An Invitation to Wild Simplicity from the Life of St. Francis (and my dog Sam)

I’m speaking on the Feast of St. Francis next Sunday at church, and since I’m devoting my posts in October to my 31 Days to a Meaningful Morning series, I wanted to share my reflections with you here ahead of time. You’ll find my sermon, along with the corresponding readings (my church gets a little creative with the liturgy) below.

sam

Little Sam meets the ocean for the first time in San Diego, CA

READINGS

Psalm 148:7-14
“Wild Geese” by Mary Oliver
Matthew 11:25-30


 

Each year in early October, we mark the Feast of St. Francis in the Liturgical Calendar. Since St. Francis is known as the patron saint of animals and ecology, the Feast of St. Francis is traditionally a day when parishioners bring their pets to be blessed.

Apart from a cat that my family had for a season, I didn’t grow up with pets. Because of this, I could never fully understand the connection people had with their pets, particularly the dogs that yipped and barked and jumped up on me without my permission.

However, in February of last year, something within me shifted. I was reading Eckhart Tolle’s bestselling book, A New Earth, hungry to be more present in my daily life. In the book, Tolle says that, because of their connection to all of creation, animal companions can help bring us beyond the ego and into the present moment.

So when Kyle’s cousin called not long after, asking us to welcome her own dog into our home because she could no longer care for him, my “yes” was sourced from deep within. Sam is a rescue—a tiny toy poodle/terrier mix—who was dropped off on a stormy day outside a shelter four years ago around the age of ten.

Because of his past, Sam is a timid dog. Some might find this discouraging, but I’ve discovered it to be a gift. Sam’s vulnerability has brought forth within me a love that I have never known before. He has softened and humbled me, and as my connection to Sam grows, I also feel a growing connection to my True Self and to the Sacred in ways both wild and nurturing, simple and profound.

Sam

Now, I can’t imagine my life without Sam, or, as Kyle and I like to refer to him—Pups. And in moments when I get wrapped up in the demands of the world and the tasks at hand, I look over at Sam sleeping, and the gentle words of Mary Oliver in her poem, “Wild Geese”:

“You do not have to be good,” she offers. “You do not have to walk on your knees for a hundred miles through the desert, repenting. You only have to let the soft animal of your body love what it loves.”

Mary Oliver’s words are not so different from Jesus’ invitation in Matthew 11:28: “Come to me, all that are weary and carrying heavy burdens,” he says, “and I will give you rest.”

What a welcome invitation this is in a culture where we can’t ever quite seem to do enough, have enough, be enough. It is the very gospel—literally, good news—that our world needs today, and it seems that things were not so different in the time of St. Francis nearly 1,000 years ago.

Image from the "Dancing Monk" series for Abbey of the Arts by Marcy Hall. Buy the icon here.

Image from the “Dancing Monk” series for Abbey of the Arts by Marcy Hall. Buy the print here.

As the son of a silk merchant, St. Francis grew up in wealth. He had the world at his fingertips and a prosperous future ahead of him in the eyes of the Italian aristocracy. However, a spiritual crisis as a young adult led him to abandon his wealth and instead take up a life of wild simplicity as he proclaimed the gospel of Jesus Christ.

St. Francis sought to so closely mirror the life of Jesus that he was the first person reported to have received the stigmata, bearing in solidarity the wounds of Christ. He lived the rest of his life attuned not to the world, but to the presence of the Holy Spirit within, advocating for peace in times of war, repentance in times of corruption, and simplicity in times of extravagance.

Vowing to live a life of poverty, St. Francis no longer measured abundance in material possessions but rather in the gifts of creation. He received joy not from the cares of the world, but instead through service, community, and, of course the animals whom he considered friends.

Conjure up images of St. Francis in your mind and you’ll likely picture a man in a simple brown robe, kneeling in prayer outside of a cave or with arm stretched out and a bird in hand. There are numerous stories of St. Francis preaching to and communicating with animals. And it is also well known that he held a deep reverence for creation, referenced in his Canticle of the Creatures in which he praises God for “Brother Sun,” “Sister moon,” “Brother Fire,” and “Mother Earth,” each in their own way pointing him to the Divine.

This, of course, reminds me of my dog, Brother Sam, and how he opens my heart, stills my soul, and fills me with gratitude—all things that draw me closer to my True Self and to God. Which makes me wonder—perhaps St. Francis had such a deep connection to animals not because he was a zealous evangelist fighting for birds’ souls, but instead because all of creation served as teachers on his spiritual journey, proclaiming to him a gospel of wild simplicity in a way that those of us wrapped up in things of this world often cannot.

“You have hidden these things from the wise and the intelligent and have revealed them to infants,” Jesus says in this evening’s gospel reading.

What if the mysteries of life do not belong—as our culture might make it seem—to those who make the rules, but instead to those who live simply—those whom the world considers “the least of these”? What if the Kingdom of God were not something to work toward in the future, but rather something that is experienced in the present moment as we practice the wild simplicity that was so well-modeled in both Christ and St. Francis?

And what if we were to remember St. Francis not by blessing the animals, but instead by being blessed by the creatures St. Francis so candidly revered?

GO FURTHER..

How have you been blessed by animals? What have your pets taught you about the Divine and the path of wild simplicity?

This Friday Doesn’t Feel So Good…

I didn’t intend on posting today, but it seems these words were waiting to come out. If you follow the Christian liturgical calendar, I hope they invite you deeper into the tension of Holy Week, and if you are simply a seeker on a spiritual journey, I hope these words remind you of the power of staying amidst the uncertainty. Blessings to you in your descent.

This Friday Doesn't Feel So Good... » asacredjourney.net

This is my first year to actively engage the events of Holy Week, including Maundy Thursday, Good Friday, and Holy Saturday. I went to my first Maundy Thursday service last night and was deeply moved by the evening’s rituals. Sue Monk Kidd (one of my favorite authors) describes rituals as enacting meaning, and as the sanctuary was stripped bare in silence at the end of the mass, I felt as if I was being stripped bare, too.

No longer were we remembering events that happened nearly 2,000 years ago. The intimate supper, the heart-wrenching prayer, the tragic betrayal, and the sudden arrest were unfolding before me, and the tension was palpable. I carried this tension with me as I exited in silence, leaving the garden more alone and confused than when I arrived, Jesus’ desperate plea to his disciples now my very own invitation: “Will you stay? Will you join me in this place?”

I am still figuring what this looks like for me within the tension of these poignant few days, but a quote from Richard Rohr recently shared by Abbey of the Art’s Christine Valters Paintner offers some guidance amidst the mystery:

“[W]hen we look at the questions, we look for the opening to transformation. Fixing something doesn’t usually transform us. We try to change events in order to avoid changing ourselves. We must learn to stay with the pain of life, without answers, without conclusions, and some days without meaning. That is the path, the perilous dark path of true prayer.”

Oooh, I love to fix things. And I’d love to jump right on ahead to Easter because this place of tension doesn’t feel good and I sure could use a Reese’s egg right about now. But this time I’m accepting the invitation to stay. Instead of grasping for answers, I’m choosing to “look at the questions.”

After all, it’s part of being a pilgrim, right? I so hope you’ll join me on this leg of the journey.

GO FURTHER…

How can you practice staying with the tension rather than rushing toward relief and looking at the questions rather than grasping for answers in these final days of Holy Week?

 

PS: Some good suggestions from this year’s Holy Week post and last year’s Holy Week guide.

 

Making Space: A Gentle Lent

Today I’m linking up with Elizabeth Esther and her gentle Lent movement. Learn more about Elizabeth’s declaration for a gentle Lent here and read the rest of the posts in the linkup here. We’ll also hear more about Lent this Wednesday from our Liturgical Guide, Katie Jensen.

A Gentle Lent » asacredjourney.net

I’ve only been in the liturgical world for a few years now. In fact, it was Lent that initially drew me toward liturgy. I knew of the season growing up only through those around me who gave up junk food like chocolate or potato chips. I’m sure giving up things like that can be meaningful in a way, because they can be so tempting that they offer plenty of opportunity to remind us why we’re fasting in the first place, but I never loved that it perpetuated a diet-mentality. Sometimes I wondered if the lost pounds were more motivation than the desire to draw closer to God in imitation of Christ’s 40 days in the wilderness.

The first year I participated in Lent I gave up watching the Today Show every morning. It had been a staple in my morning routine for years, and yet always made me feel rushed. Though I missed mornings with Meredith and Matt and was a bit behind on the news during that spring, I was surprised by how much time I had in the morning when I didn’t watch—time to move slowly, time to sit in silence, time to go deeper. That experience transformed my perspective of Lent (which, admittedly, was a bit skewed all along). To me, Lent was no longer a season of withholding. Instead, it was a time set aside for making space.

I don’t think Jesus went into the wilderness just to fast. He could have fasted anywhere. And if drawing near to God was purely experienced through reading Scripture, perhaps he should have stuck closer to the temple. But he didn’t. Instead he spent 40 days in the desert. He was seeking out space to sink deeper into his humanity, draw closer to God, and further prepare for his work in the world. We’ve got a contemplative on our hands, folks. And he was onto something.

Over the past many weeks and months I have been longing for space in my life. (Maybe you’ve picked up on it?) And with Lent approaching, I’ve been wondering what I might do to create space in this season of letting go. I thought I was onto something when I decided perhaps I could give up saying “yes” during the season of Lent—Yes, I’ll do it. Yes, I’ll go. Yeah, it’s okay—no problem! But then I realized I’ll be gone nearly the entire Lenten season. I had already said yes to everything imaginable.

With my only good idea gone I wasn’t sure what I would do for Lent, and I certainly had no idea how I might get the space my soul so desperately needed if I was going to be away from home for five weeks straight. And then last week I read a post by Elizabeth Esther inviting readers to join her for a gentle Lent. She had me at the title—gentle is just the thing I need in this busy season ahead.

“If you’re like me,” she says in the post, “you probably need less doing this Lent and more being.” Yes, yes, yes! Oh, Elizabeth—a thousand times yes!

As the word gentle began swirling in my mind and stirring in my soul, I realized that although five weeks away from home during the season of Lent seems like a whole lot of doing in my book, each week will be in a spacious setting with gentle days that inspire not doing, but being. With one week on the beach in San Diego, two weeks on pilgrimage in Ireland, and two more weeks spent in the desert with fellow contemplatives, this Lenten season I just might have more space than I could have ever imagined, all lined up in a row.

My duty this Lenten season, then, is to remember to stay present in these spacious places. But it’s going to be hard—my mind runs on busy like it’s fuel. It’s toxic, however, and gets me the worst mileage. This Lenten season I’ll need something more sustainable, and that’s where the word gentle comes in.

I don’t have anything specific I’ll be giving up for Lent this year. I’ve already said yes to everything, after all. But I’m going to hold tightly to the word gentle as a reminder to make space to go deeper in these full weeks ahead. I want to be gentle with myself and gentle with my days. I suppose gentle could also mean intentional, and I want that, too.

If that means a few missed posts or newsletters, so be it. If being gentle this Lent means late emails and getting behind on social media, the world won’t end. And if half the things on my to-do list are left undone, that’s okay—I won’t be home to do them anyway. I’ll be at the edge of the water, at the top of the hill, and in the heart of the wilderness seeking out space and drawing closer to the Sacred.

GO FURTHER…

Do you practice Lent? How might you use this season to make more space in your life?

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